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Vincent Kelly is a husband, a father of two, an HR professional and a children’s author. His first book, The Awesome Things I Love, won the 2020 Pinnacle Book Achievement Award, and publisher Greater You Books just released his second, All People Are Beautiful. The book focuses on diversity, and Kelly hopes its life lessons will resonate with both youth and adults.
What inspired you to become a children’s author?
I kind of stumbled into it. By day, I work as an HR regional manager, and by night, I’m an author. I’m also a husband and a father of two sons, and my life is so eventful and interesting because of them. They tend to inspire me a lot.
I was at home in December 2018 and just finished dinner. The boys were running around like they usually do, and something just hit me. I looked at my wife and said, “I want to write a children’s book.” My wife, knowing I’m creative and dream big, turned down the TV and asked me what the book would be about. I started walking her through my thoughts, and she actually started to get really excited about the idea. I stayed awake that night and finished the entire book in an hour-and-a-half. It was called The Awesome Things I Love. I woke up the next morning and went to work. I let a co-worker read it, and they said, “Vince, I think you’ve got something here.” I would later find an illustrator, connect with a traditional publisher, and the rest is history.
In the midst of the pandemic, I was inspired to write my second book. So much happened last year in terms of diversity. We elected the first African American and Asian American woman to the second-highest seat in the country. It was a huge win, but then we also saw tons of racial injustice that sparked a response from the entire globe. Everybody came together, and I thought it was beautiful. Out of that moment, I just stayed with the idea that all people are beautiful no matter what they look like. That was the birth of the second book.
Do you feel people are becoming more or less comfortable discussing this topic?
I’m an HR person, so I’m always thinking in terms of strategy. I designed the book to be fun and interactive and wrote the book for parents but also for educators. I think we could benefit from approaching diversity from a child’s mindset. It’s a big conversation where we can all learn something in the process.
The book shows that diversity is more than just the color of our skin. It’s about our cultures, our languages, our hobbies. It boils down to the awareness of our differences, the acceptance of those differences, and the respect for those differences. Those differences help the world become a great place to live and to love, and I think that’s how we do really great things. The diversity conversation is one that you can’t talk about too much, but you also can’t talk about it too soon. I think it’s powerful, it’s useful, and it’s needed, especially for right now. I think people have a natural apprehension [about] difficult conversations. I think we have to be open enough to have the conversation, even if it’s clumsy.
How can parents and caregivers introduce your book into their homes?
The illustrations [by Cha Consul] are done in a way to grab the child’s attention. They incorporate things that kids love already and make the child stop and pay attention. It has fun and bright colors and plenty of life lessons, so it draws their attention that way. However, I also created an interactive resource that is full of activities to complement the book, while also helping to land the conversation even more. There’s a sing-along, a read-aloud of the book, crossword puzzles and about 10 different activities altogether. For the classroom, I also developed what I call a diversity cube. It’s a cube, and on each of its sides, it has different diversity cues like age, culture, hobbies, language. You can do it one on one or with the whole group to really land that conversation.
What life lessons can children and adults walk away with after reading your book?
I think one of the biggest lessons is respect. In November, we celebrate World Kindness Day. Even though there’s a designated day for kindness, kindness is something that we should show every single day. I think the acknowledgment, acceptance and respect for diversity shows that diversity is a reality. There’s nowhere you can go where diversity doesn’t exist.
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